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Bloated Chipmunk Cock Rock Searcher
Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Posts: 2993 | TRs | Pics Location: Margaritaville |
I'm sad to report that on November 8th, my mother passed away. She'd been battling Parkinson's for the past few yrs., a ruthless disease that affects a person's mobility and independence. I'd been going to Tucson periodically to help my sister w/caregiving duties, and am grateful that I was able to be with her for her last couple wks. of life. She'd been in a rehab hospital and then released, and was home for 2 days and spent much of that time sleeping. On the afternoon of the 8th I saw her one moment sleeping in her recliner, and when I came back through the room a few minutes later she was gone. However it happens is heartbreaking, but we knew she was glad to be home & if given the choice would've wanted to be @ home rather than in some uncomfortable hospital.
My parents were both hikers and hike leaders, & no doubt were responsible for my love of hiking today. In later yrs. I mostly hiked w/my mom & one of my sisters, & occasionally a friend or two. After I moved out on my own, when I'd go back to visit Tucson I would usually do some hiking w/my mom. Of course this tapered off over the yrs. as she developed medical issues & had less energy, but I will always cherish those days in the mtns. w/her.
I wrote her obituary, where I tried to sum up 82 yrs. into a nutshell:
http://www.carrillostucsonmortuary.com/memsol.cgi?user_id=2148460
She of course will be in my thoughts always, and especially while in the mountains.
Home is where the hiking is.
"Peaks that have come and gone four times should halt a man in his steps." -- William O. Douglas
A balanced diet is a margarita in each hand.
Home is where the hiking is.
"Peaks that have come and gone four times should halt a man in his steps." -- William O. Douglas
A balanced diet is a margarita in each hand.
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zephyr aka friendly hiker
Joined: 21 Jun 2009 Posts: 3361 | TRs | Pics Location: West Seattle |
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Fri Nov 23, 2018 8:05 pm
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I am so sorry for your loss B.C. That's quite a tribute that you wrote for your mom. Such a fine legacy--especially your love of hiking and connection with Nature.
Bloated Chipmunk wrote: | She of course will be in my thoughts always, and especially while in the mountains. |
Very nice. Sincere regards, ~z
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RichP Member
Joined: 13 Jul 2006 Posts: 5628 | TRs | Pics Location: here |
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Fri Nov 23, 2018 8:11 pm
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RIP Ethel Staley, aka Bloated Chimpmunk's mom.
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Bernardo Member
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Fri Nov 23, 2018 11:22 pm
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B.C., I am sorry for your loss. May your mother be at peace. Your article details a lovely woman who lived a good life. It is very interesting how she got into weather forecasting via a math degree. Now we also know why you are such a good desert hiker. It sounds like hiking skills are just one of many blessings your mother gave to you.
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Randito Snarky Member
Joined: 27 Jul 2008 Posts: 9495 | TRs | Pics Location: Bellevue at the moment. |
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Sun Nov 25, 2018 4:26 pm
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Condolences on your loss, may her memory always be a blessing. My mother also succumbed to a form of Parkinson's, it is a rough road, my you find the strength you require.
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bobbi stillaGUAMish
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Sun Nov 25, 2018 7:02 pm
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love and hugs
bobbi ૐ
"Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting. So…get on your way!" - Oh, the Places You’ll Go! By Dr. Seuss
bobbi ૐ
"Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting. So…get on your way!" - Oh, the Places You’ll Go! By Dr. Seuss
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Schroder Member
Joined: 26 Oct 2007 Posts: 6696 | TRs | Pics Location: on the beach |
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Sun Nov 25, 2018 9:23 pm
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I lost my mother earlier this year in almost the same circumstances. We were so happy it was at home and not anywhere else. My sincere condolences B.C.
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tmatlack Member
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Mon Nov 26, 2018 4:24 am
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B.C.,
Our youngest was born in Tucson and we return semi-frequently. I will think of your mom up in Romero, Wilderness of Rocks, Peppersauce, and Sabino. So sorry for your loss.
Tom
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Schenk Off Leash Man
Joined: 16 Apr 2012 Posts: 2372 | TRs | Pics Location: Traveling, with the bear, to the other side of the Mountain |
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Mon Nov 26, 2018 12:40 pm
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You are fortunate to have good memories of your Mother.
Condolences to you and your family.
Nature exists with a stark indifference to humans' situation.
Nature exists with a stark indifference to humans' situation.
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sooperfly Member
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Sorry to hear of your loss B.C. Thank you for sharing with us.
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gb Member
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Tue Nov 27, 2018 9:28 am
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Best Wishes Bloated Chipmunk; sorry for your loss. The memories remain.
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Bloated Chipmunk Cock Rock Searcher
Joined: 29 Jan 2007 Posts: 2993 | TRs | Pics Location: Margaritaville |
Thank you everyone for your kind words.
Home is where the hiking is.
"Peaks that have come and gone four times should halt a man in his steps." -- William O. Douglas
A balanced diet is a margarita in each hand.
Home is where the hiking is.
"Peaks that have come and gone four times should halt a man in his steps." -- William O. Douglas
A balanced diet is a margarita in each hand.
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