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Allison Feckless Swooner
Joined: 17 Dec 2001 Posts: 12287 | TRs | Pics Location: putting on my Nikes before the comet comes |
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Fri Nov 04, 2011 5:30 pm
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It seems highly unlikely.
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HitTheTrail Member
Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 5456 | TRs | Pics Location: 509 |
Allison wrote: | It seems highly unlikely. |
If you do, plan on each child completely disrupting your life for at least 25 years. Luckily there is usually overlap so the total may only be 30 years or so. There are times when you secretly look forward to an empty nest. When it does happen your life is again disrupted. You then have re-learn how to live with your wife in total privacy. Just as you get used to leading a selfish life all your own you look back and think...those who didn't have kids totally missed life!
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MtnGoat Member
Joined: 17 Dec 2001 Posts: 11992 | TRs | Pics Location: Lyle, WA |
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Fri Nov 04, 2011 8:35 pm
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No lie. I was completely not into the entire deal until my ex wife brought her then three year old into the mix and that was a shakeup but then nothing but great, and when we added one of our own it got so much better it can't even be explained. I wish now I'd listened to everyone when I was much younger, i'd have wanted at least one more and maybe two. Kids are a total pain in the butt...and sooooo much more worth it than the the problems that come with them. There is nothing better in life than a kid running up and screaming daddy daddy daddy with joy when you pull up after work.
Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock. - Will Rogers
Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock. - Will Rogers
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Backpacker Joe Blind Hiker
Joined: 16 Dec 2001 Posts: 23956 | TRs | Pics Location: Cle Elum |
Where ever it is, it's in Eastern Washington!
"If destruction be our lot we must ourselves be its author and finisher. As a nation of freemen we must live through all time or die by suicide."
— Abraham Lincoln
"If destruction be our lot we must ourselves be its author and finisher. As a nation of freemen we must live through all time or die by suicide."
— Abraham Lincoln
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HitTheTrail Member
Joined: 30 Oct 2007 Posts: 5456 | TRs | Pics Location: 509 |
I think the most rewarding experience in my life has to be carrying on a conversation with a three year old.
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sarbar Living The Dream
Joined: 28 Jan 2002 Posts: 8055 | TRs | Pics Location: Freeland, Wa |
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sarbar
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Fri Nov 04, 2011 9:30 pm
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We were out tonight having dim sum and our 19 month old was having a conversation with me. I have no idea what he was saying but oh was he happy. He was laughing and smiling and yakking away. Then he stole my steamed bun off my plate He loves to pat my belly as well - he has that toddler concept of babies and doesn't quite understand he will have competition soon
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peppersteak'n'ale Member
Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 1996 | TRs | Pics
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Arlington - big enough, but still small enough, and not too far away....
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SwedishHiker Member
Joined: 25 Apr 2010 Posts: 18 | TRs | Pics Location: Arlington, WA |
peppersteak'n'ale wrote: | Arlington - big enough, but still small enough, and not too far away.... |
I agree. Close enough to everything you need, good schools, great community. We are quite happy here.
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like2thruhike Member
Joined: 28 May 2009 Posts: 1288 | TRs | Pics Location: Seattle |
The PCT,before it's too late.
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AR 724
Joined: 22 Aug 2007 Posts: 1514 | TRs | Pics Location: Saratoga Passage |
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Wed Nov 09, 2011 5:57 pm
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I second that (Stanwood). Great schools and easy going people.
**Minus the crazy people who think a public road is their driveway , and wild dogs down Jensen Rd.
...wait...are we just going to hang here or go hiking?
...wait...are we just going to hang here or go hiking?
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jimmylegs "BRB...JK."
Joined: 11 Oct 2007 Posts: 200 | TRs | Pics Location: Boring, Ore |
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Wed Nov 09, 2011 8:09 pm
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Not sure what city has more relevant 'hoods: Seattle or Portland? Feel like my heart is telling me to form an indie band. I can almost taste the pBR.
guns don't kill people, blood loss and organ damage do.
guns don't kill people, blood loss and organ damage do.
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Deereguy Member
Joined: 22 Sep 2010 Posts: 65 | TRs | Pics
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Deereguy
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Wed Nov 09, 2011 10:05 pm
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My thoughts:
First look for land and seclusion. The rest of the stuff will take care of itself.
Ideally, enough acres so when you're old the kids can build home(s) on the place and help take care of you and their mom. Consider home schooling, building your own home and plant a garden. Oh yes, some mountains close to climb would be important. No bills, live within your means. You're young with skills, the job thing will take care of itself. Work hard, love long and laugh with gusto. Deereguy
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iron Member
Joined: 10 Aug 2008 Posts: 6392 | TRs | Pics Location: southeast kootenays |
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Mon Nov 21, 2011 5:37 pm
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great suggestions everyone; thanks!
changing course a bit --- what about in canada? no geographic region in mind, but again, close to mountains. since i think the US is going down the drain on many levels, and canadians are so cool, 'ey, i could totally see heading up there too.
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Malachai Constant Member
Joined: 13 Jan 2002 Posts: 16092 | TRs | Pics Location: Back Again Like A Bad Penny |
Well if you want to be by mountains it would be BC or Alberta. Vancouver is a beautiful city but housing is very pricy. While employment is higher here it is still not easy unless in the oil industry in cold climates far from the peaks (same as US in ND). Taxes are high but health care is essentially free. Goods are more expensive. There are some nice small town in central BC like Clearwater close to the mountains. Some larger towns like Quesnel, Prince George etc. have a Forksy vibe (logging lots of alcoholism). Housing is far cheaper in Eastern Canada (except Toronto). pm me if you have specific questions.
"You do not laugh when you look at the mountains, or when you look at the sea." Lafcadio Hearn
"You do not laugh when you look at the mountains, or when you look at the sea." Lafcadio Hearn
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Burke M over-caffeinated
Joined: 09 Sep 2010 Posts: 699 | TRs | Pics Location: Seattle |
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Burke M
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Tue Nov 22, 2011 4:06 pm
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Why not just go to Switzerland?
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