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Just_Some_Hiker Member
Joined: 02 Jan 2013 Posts: 691 | TRs | Pics Location: Snoqualmie, WA |
Quote: | On Saturday, October 7th 2017, a backcountry skier, famous climber Inge Perkins, was fully buried and killed in an avalanche while approaching Imp Peak, MT. Her ski partner, famous climber Hayden Kennedy, was only partially buried by the avalanche, searched for his buried partner, couldn’t find her, hiked out, and notified authorities.
The next day, Hayden took his own life in grief. |
https://snowbrains.com/2-skiers-caught-avalanche-to-montana-saturday-one-killed-survivor-took-life-grief/
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Schenk Off Leash Man
Joined: 16 Apr 2012 Posts: 2372 | TRs | Pics Location: Traveling, with the bear, to the other side of the Mountain |
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Tue Oct 10, 2017 3:18 pm
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Oh my God..that is tragic and sad.
RIP skiers, Rest in peace.
Nature exists with a stark indifference to humans' situation.
Nature exists with a stark indifference to humans' situation.
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Bernardo Member
Joined: 08 Feb 2010 Posts: 2174 | TRs | Pics Location: out and about in the world |
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Tue Oct 10, 2017 4:03 pm
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Some nice tributes, but very sad all around. Be safe.
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AlpineRose Member
Joined: 08 May 2012 Posts: 1953 | TRs | Pics
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So, so sad. This was a small avalanche as avalanches go. It seems transceivers were not involved, since the survivor hiked out for help, and the burial was located with probes.
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RumiDude Marmota olympus
Joined: 26 Jul 2009 Posts: 3590 | TRs | Pics Location: Port Angeles |
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Tue Oct 10, 2017 4:43 pm
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Wow, very sad indeed!
Rumi
"This is my Indian summer ... I'm far more dangerous now, because I don't care at all."
"This is my Indian summer ... I'm far more dangerous now, because I don't care at all."
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Ringangleclaw Member
Joined: 01 Sep 2010 Posts: 1559 | TRs | Pics
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AlpineRose wrote: | So, so sad. This was a small avalanche as avalanches go. It seems transceivers were not involved, since the survivor hiked out for help, and the burial was located with probes. |
I think Inge's beacon was in her pack and not turned on. Maybe Hayden, among the other survivor guilt he has acumulated in the last few years, felt he was at fault for her not turning on the beacon.
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Jim Dockery Member
Joined: 12 Sep 2007 Posts: 3092 | TRs | Pics Location: Lake Stevens |
Damn. That is one of the saddest stories I've read. I've been following Hayden's climbing for some time - he was the real deal - all round climber living the life (including nice guy). His father is Michael, one of the greats from my generation, and longtime editor of Climbing and now Alpinist magazines. Condolences to family and friends. RIP
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moonspots Happy Curmudgeon
Joined: 03 Feb 2007 Posts: 2456 | TRs | Pics Location: North Dakota |
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Wed Oct 11, 2017 7:10 am
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Schenk wrote: | Oh my God..that is tragic and sad.
RIP skiers, Rest in peace. |
Indeed.
"Out, OUT you demons of Stupidity"! - St Dogbert, patron Saint of Technology
"Out, OUT you demons of Stupidity"! - St Dogbert, patron Saint of Technology
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rbuzby Attention Surplus
Joined: 24 Feb 2009 Posts: 1011 | TRs | Pics
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Wed Oct 11, 2017 8:03 am
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It's too bad he didn't have somebody around him that could have stopped him from killing himself until he was able to be more rational. A tragic accident is bad enough, but a suicide too?
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gb Member
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Wed Oct 11, 2017 8:33 am
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Oh, that is really a devastatingly sad story.
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cambajamba Member
Joined: 05 Nov 2011 Posts: 339 | TRs | Pics
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Worst one I've heard - I totally agree with his thoughts on trying to balance the light and dark sides of alpine living. As my life gets longer, so does my list of close folks who died with their boots on. I don't know what to make of it either.
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Stefan Member
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Wed Oct 11, 2017 1:46 pm
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Mike Collins Member
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rbuzby wrote: | It's too bad he didn't have somebody around him that could have stopped him from killing himself until he was able to be more rational. |
This is what makes this tragedy so intensely sad. Outside of a sexual relationship climbing offers some of the most intimate moments between people. Our lives depend on each other when on belay. But just because your partner is at home and off-belay doesn't mean he/she doesn't need your occasional help. The most dangerous slope Hayden Kennedy was on during his lifetime was the one he encountered after the death of the woman he loved. He was possibly searching for handholds that he could rely on to establish a connection to the future. It is important for all of us to help others during times of intense transition in their lives. Take a moment to help form a sense of safety for those who are wrapped in grief and assist those is a whirlwind of sadness. Fear of embarrassment might dissuade us from asking others if they are having thoughts of suicide but don't avoid the question. Suicide should not a blind spot on the radar screen. As long as people have emotions and feel as if they are at rope's end that tragic option needs to be addressed by family and friends. We are all "first responders" with meeting this call.
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pula58 Member
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Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:45 am
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A terribly sad human story.
I can totally imagine thoughts tending toward suicide after what he went through. I'm pretty sure many people would have similar thoughts. May they both be at peace.
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RumiDude Marmota olympus
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Thu Oct 12, 2017 11:07 am
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pula58 wrote: | I can totally imagine thoughts tending toward suicide after what he went through. |
I do not wish to diminish the personal loss and sorrow that he experienced following the death of his partner. I just want to say something about suicide. Rarely does one incident , even as tragic as this one, cause an otherwise stable person to kill themselves. Something like this is simply the end of a struggle and thus only serves as a precipitating event. It is almost always a long process going from suicidal thoughts to actually attempting suicide. Suicide is like the exposed tip of the iceberg, just the part we notice.
I only mention this because of having close friends and relatives take their own life. I hope the friends and family of these two can find peace and comfort to ease their grief.
Rumi
"This is my Indian summer ... I'm far more dangerous now, because I don't care at all."
"This is my Indian summer ... I'm far more dangerous now, because I don't care at all."
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